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I hurt someone dear to me and I still feel guilty? Help me?


My friend someone consider a sister loss her baby before I had my son. When my son was born i didn't tell because she was so fixated on being my child's godmother. I felt like my space was being invaded. We had a big blow out. It was a whole lotta cussing and screaming. We resolved it but, I still feel bad and this was 6mos ago. What should I do?

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summer816

Asked by summer816 at 9:47 PM on May. 22, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Make up with her.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 9:52 PM on May. 22, 2009

  • Apologize to her from your heart, if you haven't already...forgive yourself and move on. We all make mistakes...don't dwell on it.
    moniquinha

    Answer by moniquinha at 9:54 PM on May. 22, 2009

  • If you've resolved it, then you need to let it go.
    lisa_ann_p

    Answer by lisa_ann_p at 10:04 PM on May. 22, 2009

  • Guilt is for losers. Suck it up and move on.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:07 PM on May. 22, 2009

  • Don't overthink it.Don't think too much. Just be there for her. You probably need to forgive yourself and let go of the guilt and remorse before you jeopardize your friendship. GL.
    bella69147

    Answer by bella69147 at 10:08 PM on May. 22, 2009

  • we are all human, just move on with life if she is past it then you need to get past it as well
    raurismomma07

    Answer by raurismomma07 at 11:08 PM on May. 22, 2009

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