I am so emotionally drained. My husband keeps making bad choices.... on a business trip he took money out on a credit card to gamble after we had a conversation that he would not do that. He has also gambled on previous trips and not told me about it until I found out through the credit card statements. But most recently I found him searching online through photos of a girl that is a friend. He did it late at night right before bed so I can only assume that he is getting off on it. He used to search porn but stopped when I became aware of it and was upset. But this is different because I know this girl. I am loosing trust every day. I feel so detached from him. We have a beautiful family and have fun with our children but our marriage has had more downs than ups and I feel like a fool. I truly want what is best for my kids but I don't know how to fix this marriage.
Asked by Anonymous at 5:50 PM on May. 24, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by firethearson at 5:54 PM on May. 24, 2009
Answer by rkoloms at 5:55 PM on May. 24, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 6:22 PM on May. 24, 2009
Answer by sherlockhlm at 6:35 PM on May. 24, 2009
I agree with everyone that has said that you need counseling. But before anything else, you need to take some time to yourself. Being a mother, SAHM or working, is the hardest job in the world. We don't get paid and we never get the appreciation that we deserve. You deserve some R&R. A mother/wife who is emotionally drained can not take care of the family she has. It will do more damage than good by making a decision when you are exhausted like this. Whether you choose to be with your DH or not. After you have gotten some energy back, then make your decision. What ever it is make one that is beneficial for not only your children but for yourself and DH as well. Good luck with whatever you choose.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 6:57 PM on May. 24, 2009
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