today i looked at my boyfriends phone and his ex text him!!!! i said why he said cuz we are friends we like to to each other. he didi not see anything wrong about it. he also confessed that he ment up with her a few days ago and hung out. i was like why did u go behind my back and he said he knew i would flip out i was like then wouldn't that tell u that what ur doing is wrong? i told him to pack his shit and leave he practicly got on his hands and kneews begging not to kich him out i told him he could stay for now but i have to think i mean we been together 3years and have a daughter but at the same time i can i believe him now . i now second guess everything he says to me now. like he said he won't talk to her anymore well u went behind my back the first time why won't he do it again. so ladies please i need help lots of comments please i'm desperate i don't know what to do i can barely look at him.Answer Question
Answer by louise2 at 9:04 PM on May. 24, 2009
Answer by outstandingLove at 9:05 PM on May. 24, 2009
First off, just because you would flip out doesn't mean he's wrong or what he's doing is wrong. Actually you are wrong for being so insecure and trying to treat him like his mother. You need to get over your insecurities and trust your man so that he can trust you.
Answer by Chrissy629 at 9:18 PM on May. 24, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 9:39 PM on May. 24, 2009
Answer by melody77 at 9:53 PM on May. 24, 2009
if they're such good friends, why don't you tell him the 3 of you can hang out ..even though it would be awkward at first..i think that's a good idea.
Answer by Anonymous at 1:05 AM on May. 25, 2009
Answer by evelynwest at 10:42 AM on May. 25, 2009