my husband and I are both in our early 50s. im 50 hes 51. heres the thing our older kids no longer live with us they have moved on we have one grandchild a newbie, 3 months but our last one is only 11 so needless to say she does everything with us, a babysitter is verrrry hard to find. we love her dearly, but have been rather not close int he sexual way.. I have gained weight and dont feel attracted he says he wants it only when I ask why arent you approaching me?. he thinks I should first?. we usually have sex like once every 8-9 months the other times we are fine with it I guess, it just seems like we are busy and tired and frankly I dont care anymore if we have a relationship that way.. it was good but now its like well I guess I dont care anymore.. we are married 30 years this summer, we both look young and rather attrative. so I need some advice, some answers, SOMEONE to tell us we are normal OR WE ARE NOT and WHAT SHOULDAnswer Question
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