My DH is being deployed and befor he leaves he wants to make a video and take some "X" rated pics to take with him. I feel like i cant tell him no cuz he is going to be laeving and i want to make the last few days he has left as good as posible. I told him that i did what any one els to see them if i did do this. He told me that if its some one els wife then they respet it and wont look but idk if he is just saying that so ill do it. I dont think he is even alound to have stuff like that with him?.... what would you girls do and how would you tell him?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 6:47 PM on May. 25, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 6:51 PM on May. 25, 2009
Answer by countingsparows at 6:55 PM on May. 25, 2009
Answer by raineydays377 at 6:55 PM on May. 25, 2009
If you feel that uncomfortable with it then do NOT do it. There are many other ways to make the rest of his time with you enjoyable. You should follow your intuition and if it is telling you no, then don't do it because you will regret it later. Explain how you feel to him just like you are doing to us and I think that he will understand.
Answer by CocoaQT at 6:55 PM on May. 25, 2009
Answer by MizLee at 6:58 PM on May. 25, 2009
Answer by louise2 at 7:02 PM on May. 25, 2009
First off, ask yourself if your DH is normally a private reserved person? Because if so, he'll more than likely keep them private than pass them around. Especially if you know him to be above the behavior of most junior high school boys. Then personally, I would maybe think of some tasteful "nude" shots. Nothing that would be a candidate for Hustler. LOL Or just in some lingerie and not completely nude. There should be a compromise somewhere!
Answer by Lesli at 7:25 PM on May. 25, 2009
Answer by mancosmomma at 8:25 PM on May. 25, 2009