This is similar to a question I asked yesterday, but based on some of the answers, I have to ask AGAIN (but in a different way):
If your mil/so's mother treated you like a dog, and says you're not welcome at her house, would you go out of your way to send your child over to her house? Or would you require that she come to YOUR house, until she can be more respectful of you?
IF you did send your child over, how would you explain to your child that "Gramma" treats you like crap, but it's still ok for the child to go over?
I know I'm beating a dead horse, but some of those answers really got me thinking...
Asked by Anonymous at 11:17 AM on May. 26, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Jodie118 at 1:22 PM on May. 26, 2009
Answer by Jodie118 at 11:19 AM on May. 26, 2009
I can't see sending my kids to ANYONES house that disrespects me/talks crap about me - this includes GP's as well. This is why MIL DOES NOT see our kids. Since day one she has not respected me as a wife/mother - but only saw me as a "threat" to what she wanted (total control over my DH/marriage & kids) Sorry to say that if you can't respect me why on Earth would I give you alone time / unlimited access to MY KIDS with out me being present?
I hate the "well they are HER grandkids and she DESERVES to see them" line, thats a crock. If this is how Grandparents (MIL) are going to act (in regards to the DIL) the g-kids are better off WITH OUT THEM in their lives.
Answer by Anonymous at 11:28 AM on May. 26, 2009
Answer by lisa_ann_p at 11:28 AM on May. 26, 2009
Answer by twilite2000 at 11:32 AM on May. 26, 2009
I would not let my kids go to her house. She would not be allowed over at my house. Unless she can be nice to me..That's what I would say directly to her face.
Answer by louise2 at 11:37 AM on May. 26, 2009
Answer by Buffie95 at 11:38 AM on May. 26, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 12:20 PM on May. 26, 2009
Answer by LuvmyFam6 at 12:49 PM on May. 26, 2009
Answer by Fallaya at 3:55 PM on May. 26, 2009
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