I'm worried about my SS. His BM was married to a very nice man who we got along with great. SS loved him and actually called him Daddy too. We don't mind because we don't live close to SS. BM and the other Daddy divorced in December and SS was heartbroken. Everytime we talked to him he would tell us how much he missed his other Daddy. They divorced because BM cheated on him. Since then, the only way we can get a hold of SS is by calling to his Grandmothers on the weekend. He's at daycare all through the week and then at Grandmother house at night. Sometimes BM picks him up, sometimes not. BM is always out with different men and SS has at least mentioned 4 different "mommy's boyfriends" since the divorce. I checked her myspace and she has pictures, kissing, holding seductively, and dressed scantly with more then four men. What are we supposed to do from so far away? How can we prove anything.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 1:19 PM on May. 26, 2009 in General Parenting
Answer by EireLass at 1:25 PM on May. 26, 2009
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ANONYMOUS...........EireLass: I don't think it's good for a kid to meet all of his mother's "boyfriends". This isn't teaching him anything good. The BM kinds sounds like a slut. This parent is only concerned for the well being of her SS. The SS probably took the divorce hard and his mother is obviously only concerned with what she wants. NOt cool.
What I'm responding to is that, according to the poster, the child hardly sees the mother. The child has the stability of the same day care and the grandmother. If the step-mom gets custody, the child will not see the mother any more frequent. I don't agree that this is good behaviour either, but the poster said she wants to get proof. Proof of what? That the child is in day care every day and with the grandmother most of the rest of the time?
Answer by EireLass at 2:25 PM on May. 26, 2009