My husband has recently started talking to another girl on the phone. He is 39 years old and I am 37 years old. He has all the "symptoms" of a midlife crisis from what I looked up on the internet. We have 3 kids together ages 2, 6, and 14 and have been together almost 18 years. He barely talks to me and when I told him I miss him he says "I had my chance". How do I get my husband back? I want to fight for him and our relationship because it means very much to me. Any suggestions? Thanks!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 1:19 PM on May. 27, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 1:23 PM on May. 27, 2009
Answer by 7mom1977 at 1:25 PM on May. 27, 2009
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Answer by dawpea at 1:40 PM on May. 27, 2009
Midlife crisis is not an excuse for an affair. There are plenty of things he can do without putting your marriage on the line.
Having said that, if you are willing to fight for your man then I suggest going back to the beginning and start dating again. Go out and do stuff together and have some fun.
I would also suggest spicing things up in the bedroom by wearing sexy lingerie or trying new things.
Answer by beeky at 1:51 PM on May. 27, 2009
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