I gave him an ultimatum...
We have been together two years but he comes and goes when he wants. He has been in and out of our lives the whole time, it has even been months during some of these times.
I told him that either he commits to me or he don't. If he doesn't, I told him to never call me again and that we will be done for good.
I am tired of crying over him or because of him and this is the only way that I can make that clear to him. It doesn't mean if he commits that it will work out but it's worth a try.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:39 PM on May. 27, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by beckcorc at 9:41 PM on May. 27, 2009
Answer by Lovejoy0303 at 9:43 PM on May. 27, 2009
Answer by LuvBug3 at 9:43 PM on May. 27, 2009
Answer by IzzeAddy at 9:50 PM on May. 27, 2009
Yes, you have the right, just follow through. If you don't he will walk all over you and kind of have the power in the relationship. If he chooses to go, you need to heal, and in time, I promise you will find the right man. By letting go of the chaos, you will find you and see how much time you have to do other things than worry about where he is and what he does. If he stays, you need clear commitments and ground rules to establish trust. I wish it could just be easy!
Answer by Teachermom01 at 9:54 PM on May. 27, 2009