I'm 7 months pregnant and my husband and I have not been intimate in 2 months! In the beginning, he was afraid because of my low lying placenta, that problem resolved itself and we were given the green light. Now, he is nervous that the "contractions" of an orgasm will induce labor. I'm frustrated because I recently discovered a slew of pornography on our home computer which made me feel even more undesirable.
The problem I see is this: He looks at me and sees my belly. I am no longer being seen as the sexy, desirable woman I once was; I am seen as the vessel through which his child will be born. Will I ever regain my sex appeal or will I only be seen as the mother of his child?
Don't be jealous of your baby. You are in a new category right now because you are carrying a baby. Pregnant women are beautiful and sometimes they are sexy. If you want my advice, you need to get rid of the porn. Sit down and talk to him about it and tell him how it made you feel, how it makes you feel. He needs to be in tune with your feelings and your needs especially right now. If he neglects those feelings, you'll hold resentment towards him for a long time and you might even resent your baby for a while. He needs to get rid of the porn and explore your new growing body. GL
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