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Did you or would you let your SO have a stripper at his Bachelor Party?

Kinda curious i was thinking about our future and this popped into my head.


Asked by Thaifalung20 at 6:31 PM on May. 28, 2009 in Relationships

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  • My guy did not have a stripper because I was freaked out by it. But now ten years later, I wouldn't have a problem with it, because now I have less hangups. I know he wouldn't cheat, so what is the harm of looking...KWIM?

    Answer by Nathskitten at 6:37 PM on May. 28, 2009

  • No, my husband never had a bachelor party and i would be pissed if a stripper were to attend if he did.

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:33 PM on May. 28, 2009

  • I'm with Nathskitten - Dh didn't do much of anything for his bachelor party. They played pool and had a few drinks. I would have been really upset if they had gone to a strip club or had a stripper at the party. 10 years later though I wouldn't care. If he wanted to go to a strip club I'd probably go with him. Not to keep an eye on him but I think it could be fun, lol.

    Answer by sadira29 at 6:41 PM on May. 28, 2009

  • i have to say in a perfect world NO but he may think differently. He doesnt want me having one at my bachelorette party but he says he wants one. Um so not fair. But i always tease him that since he lied at his cousins and said there ws no strippers when in reality all the groomsmen got lap dances that he wasted his shot on david (his cousin) and he claims he doesnt wnat one but we all know boys!!

    Answer by Kennadismom at 6:51 PM on May. 28, 2009

  • No, they didn't. But my brother did, and he went to that. No harm I guess..

    Answer by Ambie0526 at 7:21 PM on May. 28, 2009

  • No he wouldn't. We don't support the oppression of women.


    Answer by legalmommy101 at 7:47 PM on May. 28, 2009

  • I know he didn't then, but 20 years later I wouldn't care if he went to watched a stripper.

    Answer by onethentwins at 8:15 PM on May. 28, 2009

  • No to having one at a private party (you can't regulate the girls in a private setting and guys get into a "pack" mentality at those sort of things, so it could lead to bad judgement)

    But, YES to going to an actual strip club. Nothing wrong with that IMO.

    Answer by ozarkgirl3 at 8:17 PM on May. 28, 2009

  • i dont care if he sees them or not. even tho he doesnt. I even took him to a strip club once for my friends 21st bday. he was the only guy and our DD for the night. poor guy! lol! I know he would be good

    Answer by RhiannonHunt at 8:31 PM on May. 28, 2009

  • I had a bachlorette party no stripper but still felt bad when a week before our wedding he hadnt gotten to go out one last time single so I called his friends and made them come get him and take him out to the strip club..and my hubby had no fun he called me all drunk to come get him so he could have a private show

    Answer by hedtrippe at 8:41 PM on May. 28, 2009