i want another kid...ive always wanted 3...i compromised to 2....but he doesnt want another kid period. he would get a vasectomy if i agreed. but i really, really want another baby ...maybe not today but i dont want to wait forever. our daughter is 2.5 years old now and i feel like its a good age to have the 2nd but he just doesnt want another kid. did your SO ever not want a 2nd when you did?
I would talk to him, but it sounds like you knew his wants before having children and as you said 'compromised', you two need to come to common grounds on this and if he agree to two children from the beginning, then you need to remind him of that. You could agree to take a break and get on birth control, and set a date together of when to try for number two, giving you two a chance to come to an agreement. This could give you a larger gap between children than you wanted, however it would mean you do get to have that second child at a time that would be best for both of you without causing marital issues.
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