So just wondering if any of you had your spouse or S/O attend the baby shower? My husband wanted to come and was excited about it, and I wanted him to come too. However his male friends who aren't able to come are giving him a hard time about being there and now he's wanting to back down and not go. I always thought it would be okay for the dad to attend, after all the baby shower is really for the baby not for us. Just wondering what you guys have done. Thank you.. TGIF!!!
Oh yes, my baby showers my husband was there and even helped with them with the person giving it. We went to a co-baby shower a couple months back of his co-workers wife that was pregnant with their first and there were just as many men there as women. His friends haven't moved with the times yet and to be honest now days it seems that is how baby showers are going, which I say "it's about time", I mean the man helps create the child just as much as the woman and should feel just as involved and responsible for them so he should also be included in baby showers. Tell your hubby he's not the only man to have gone, trust me I know many men that have gone and do go to baby showers, just let him know it shows he's more man than his friends since he doesn't back down on invitations.
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I don't like men at "baby showers" I like when there is an opportunity for just the girls to get together and celebrate this. Then we can share birth stories and be comfortable without the guys there. I love my husband. But I also LOVE to leave the kids with my dh and go relax with the girls! Why not just have a co ed BBQ kind of thing instead? If he is the only guy there he will probably be uncomfortable :)
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