how do you moms who have babies with men who work nights?

How do we what?

Are you asking how are they conceived or how do you juggle the time raising them? Well, conception only takes a few minutes, lol so that is an easy one. My now ex DH used to work nights & I basically raised the kids on my own. He would come home & crawl right into bed about the time we were getting up for the day. I would get the oldest off to school & then usually spend the mornings running errands or taking the babies places. I would bring them home for a nap & about the time DH got up, the kids would be awake & the oldes home from school. DH would usually take off & do his thing, then we would have dinner & he would leave again (he worked 12 hours shifts). The money was great & I loved having the kids to myself. The hardest part was feeling trapped in my own house. If we needed to be home in the mornings, I had to keep the kids quiet b/c he was sleeping. It was hard to find time to clean & stuff as well.