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how often do your friends ???

How often do your kids stay over? My 19 & 21 yr old friend whos only 14 stay here 4 to 6 dyas a week & her mother only has her. She seems to think that she can stay & do whatever she pleases. She doesnt want to be bothered by her. i have 6 kids & I think its ridiculous how she satys here always.

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Asked by pinkflowerpetal at 11:18 PM on May. 29, 2009 in Teens (13-17)

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  • Well, have you talked to her? Maybe you should tell her how you feel about it. You mentioned that the 14-year-old is an only child, right? Well, maybe she feels lonely and wants those sisterly/brotherly figures, and your kids are it. Try sitting down and talking with her, and asking why she likes to be over so much. Then, ask her if she can cut it down a bit. If it doesn't work, then simply call her mother to talk to her, or sit down face-to-face with her, and the 14-year-old.

    Answer by YikezItzKaitlyn at 3:00 AM on May. 30, 2009

  • Take the 14 yr old home. She doesn't even need to be friends with a 19 and 21 yr old, that is asking for trouble. It is your house, you make the rules and you can send her home. If your kids don't like it they are old enough to move out and fend for themselves. And do deal with any trouble that occurs from having a friend that is 14.

    Answer by tyfry7496 at 9:00 AM on May. 30, 2009

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