Ok,,,I pay the bills in the family..My DH earns the money..So the bills get payed, in full every month ..But my DH is not good about leaving the savings alone. So we basically do not have and savings/fall back money.All our accounts are joint..
My question to you all is..Do you think it would be wrong of me to go and get a savings account in my name only,,And not tell my DH..Only so I can save for our future,,money my DH could not tough
Asked by Anonymous at 10:51 AM on May. 31, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by IzzeAddy at 11:52 AM on May. 31, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 11:18 AM on May. 31, 2009
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Answer by MizLee at 11:40 AM on May. 31, 2009
Yes it is wrong. If you had a job and felt the need to have a separate account for "your" money then sure. But taking "his" money and putting it in a separate account. One that he won't know about or have access to, is stealing. Let him deal with the bills so he can actually see where his money is going. Putting it in your children's name is a good idea. If the money is actually for them. Taking money out of that account for your own use? Now you would be stealing from your children. Sounds like a great idea to me.
Answer by Chrissy629 at 11:43 AM on May. 31, 2009
And having such is huge lie in your relationship is one sure way to destroy it.
Answer by Chrissy629 at 11:45 AM on May. 31, 2009
Answer by Tickledtrauma at 4:39 PM on May. 31, 2009
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