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cheating: forgive him or kick him to the curb?

if your SO cheated on you would you find it in your heart to forgive him or kick him to the curb?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 9:40 PM on May. 31, 2009 in Just for Fun

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  • Depends on the situation and if I thought he was being truthful and remorseful.
    ReneeK3

    Answer by ReneeK3 at 9:43 PM on May. 31, 2009

  • Without a doubt I would kick him to the curb.
    ronjwake

    Answer by ronjwake at 9:45 PM on May. 31, 2009

  • Situation or not, I don't know. I kind of think once a cheater always a cheater. Would depend on if I had kids I guess.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:45 PM on May. 31, 2009

  • I think we are human we make mistakes its life if he did it once and felt horrid I would forgive cause how I view it if I cheated and felt soo bad and horrid I'd hope he would stay with me too
    preggoinmn

    Answer by preggoinmn at 9:46 PM on May. 31, 2009

  • I dont know depends on alot of factors maybe forgive once get counceling then 2nd time curb him
    ArmyWife112908

    Answer by ArmyWife112908 at 9:50 PM on May. 31, 2009

  • TO THE CURB!! That is the ONE thing I won't forgive...I don't care if people make mistakes, you can keep it in your pants and screw up on something else.. and I would NEVER cheat so his ass would be G"ONE!
    calliesmommie

    Answer by calliesmommie at 9:51 PM on May. 31, 2009

  • No, once a cheater always a cheater. He would be no good to me after that. Kick his butt to the curb. There is no forgiveness!!!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:52 PM on May. 31, 2009

  • If he had sex with her Bye Bye baby but if not I might be able to forgive him but it would depend on how long it was going on etc etc

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:53 PM on May. 31, 2009

  • If he did it once - he will do it again sooner or later. if you forgive him - you basically give him your permission to cheat on you. It is that simple. Now you decide.
    Bryans_Mom

    Answer by Bryans_Mom at 9:55 PM on May. 31, 2009

  • i would just kick him to the curb bcuz i cant have a cheating hb/boyfriend
    parisonmom

    Answer by parisonmom at 10:15 PM on May. 31, 2009

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