i grew up just north of des moines. i dont live there anymore so not much help in that dept, but i do know that my best friend all through high school still lives in des moines, pm if you want her name and number, she is a great girl with 3 little girls. i know it sounds strange. but she would be a great support person to you im sure
I live in Minnesota, and I wish I could help you out. I'm sure you could find someone at church or in a homeschooling group who would be happy to help you and be your friend and second family. Don't let anyone tell you that you need to abort your baby. There is always room for one more. Maybe a pro-life pregnancy center could find caring people to take you in. Try get your husband to pay child support.