My adoptee son, Danny, Just turned 21. My husband and I took his a-family out with us, his birth family, for a celebration dinner. It made me think...I chose them and obviously I wouldn't have given my child to a couple I didn't like, but I thought about how they are stuck with me. I'm going to in their lives forever; In thier son's wedding, grandma to their grandkids, etc., So it made me wonder, if you were matched with an expectant mom and you didn't like her, would you take into consideration that this woman will be in your lives forever and not accept her child. Or, would you adopt her baby anyway and just put up with her?
This is for domestic infant adoption only, obviously.
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We did not care for our twins birth mom. She was a self absorbed teenager and a complete brat. She handed the babies to me told me to get lost she needed to sleep. I sent her pictures she sent them back. She will not be in our lives. The twins know they are adopted and that she closed the adoption. They never ask about her. I have seen three times at Target. She gives me a dirty look and rolls her eyes at the twins. I really hope they don't want anything to do with her. She will only break their hearts.
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