nothing is working i have even tried taking there fav things away as punishment then all belongings but clothes and bedding. the father wont disipline his 4yr old but will disapline is 2 older girls and my 3yrold daughter and beleives his daughter does no wrong. his 8yr old constantlly forgets things and chucks trantrums and says i do everything around here when i ask her to do some thing WITCH IS RARLY I ASK. i dont feel right about smacking his youngest and i no he and his ex wouldnt aprove but im at my witts end. its getting to the point that i dont want his 4yr old here more then the 8yrold.
4 YEAR OLD
NEVER DOES AS SHE IS TOLD
STAMPS AND KICKS HER FEET ON MY WALLS
CONSTANTLY DRAWS ON THE WALLS AND FUNITURE WITH PEN/TEXTER/CRAYON/PENCILS
PUSHES AND BITES MY 3YR OLD DAUGHTER
WETS THE BED AND DOESNT TELL US
Asked by Anonymous at 5:21 AM on Jun. 1, 2009 in General Parenting
Answer by milmiracle at 6:01 AM on Jun. 1, 2009
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Answer by mistynights234 at 7:23 AM on Jun. 1, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 7:41 AM on Jun. 1, 2009
I did read your journal. I beg to differ. You did say " rarly tapping her hand. " and "i dont feel right about smacking his youngest and i no he and his ex wouldnt aprove". Which led me to believe you were "smacking" these kids. There is nothing wrong with getting parenting classes. I did not mean that in a derogatory manner.
I was also asking if the childrens kids had a relationship with there father. Or were they taken from the only home they knew. It sounds like these girls have been threw a very hard life. They would benefit from some counseling to learn how to constructively deal with anger and disappointment. It also sounds like you are the main parent. There is also nothing wrong with getting help if you need it. Parenting is a very hard job.
Answer by mistynights234 at 7:58 AM on Jun. 1, 2009
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