So my husband told me last night in a heated arugement that if i got another tattoo or another piercing that i could leave because he was not going to be married to anyone that was trashy. he believes that people with tattoo are associated with drugs and gangs and that i look like i have branded myself. our marrige isnt the best but i love my husband even though he has a small box in which he thinks inside of. my husband asked me if i would have still choosen the tattoo if i knew it was going to cause trouble in our marriage and i still would have gotten it. i have thought about this for a long time and it is a small one with three letters (one for each of my sons) it is hid by my shirt and not out in the open....what do you think about this????
Answer by hautemama83 at 3:33 PM on Jun. 1, 2009
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Answer by happi-ladi at 3:20 PM on Jun. 1, 2009
That fact that if you knew it would have caused so much trouble and would have gotten it anyway speaks volumes. You are very selfish. Granted your husband is a little extreme. But knowing this you should be more concerned with your relationship. He didn't marry a woman with tattoos. And he doesn't want one now.
And if you're wondering yes I have 5 tattoos. 3 before I got married and 2 after.
Answer by Chrissy629 at 8:17 AM on Jun. 2, 2009