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the 1st time you did the do...

before you had sex for the very 1st time... what were you most afraid of?

I just knew i would bleed like i was the victim of a random drive by. turns out I didnt bleed at all... ThanQ lord. lol
Im just curious to know what else scared the BeJeezus outta some of you ladies.
sooooo... what was it?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 4:17 PM on Jun. 1, 2009 in Just for Fun

Answers (13)
  • I was afraid of bleeding too!! I never did though. And I just knew the condom was going to break and I was going to turn up pregnant! Thank goodness that didn't happen either. lol
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:19 PM on Jun. 1, 2009

  • i thought it was going to hurt & i was going to bleed, my 1st was so small, i tried not to laugh at him, my husband is the one who broke the hymen lol
    josiesmommy00

    Answer by josiesmommy00 at 4:21 PM on Jun. 1, 2009

  • I was afraid of pregnancy!

    And it totally sucked. DH couldn't get it up.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:31 PM on Jun. 1, 2009

  • Afraid of going from being a virgin to not being a virgin.
    Fallaya

    Answer by Fallaya at 4:37 PM on Jun. 1, 2009

  • My family finding out and me being damned for all eternity.
    Amaranth361

    Answer by Amaranth361 at 4:40 PM on Jun. 1, 2009

  • His mom walking in! Lol
    MomAt15woah

    Answer by MomAt15woah at 4:41 PM on Jun. 1, 2009

  • I was just afraid of pain...i broke my hymen w tampons....lol
    worriedmommy600

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 4:45 PM on Jun. 1, 2009

  • I was terrified of the pain. It did hurt, but not as bad as I thought, probably because he cared enough to go slow. :) That was over 20 years ago, and we're now married over 18. :)
    LIZARD66

    Answer by LIZARD66 at 4:49 PM on Jun. 1, 2009

  • I thought it was going to hurt & i was going to bleed, my 1st was so small, i tried not to laugh at him, my husband is the one who broke the hymen lol

    Ditto, except my hymen was broken from riding horses. I thought sex sucked until I met my husband. :)
    Cavalrybaby02

    Answer by Cavalrybaby02 at 4:57 PM on Jun. 1, 2009

  • I was afraid it was going to hurt. I was also more scared about it because i was raped and thats how i lost my virginity. But i didnt count that but i was afraid it was going to hurt like it did the night i got raped. Thankfully the guy i was with was careful and told me to tell him to stop if i got scared or if it hurt at all. We had been dating for 3 years before we ever did anything togeather aside from kissing.
    Shelii

    Answer by Shelii at 5:07 PM on Jun. 1, 2009

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