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What would you do if your feonce doesnt want another kid and your now expecting another one? Also, he wants me to get an abortion witch I am totally against

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:09 AM on Jun. 2, 2009 in Pregnancy

Answers (11)
  • too bad for him. if he didn't want another kid then he should have wrapped up tighter or praticed abstinence. Abortion SHOULD NOT be used to clean up adult's accidents.
    HisMommySince07

    Answer by HisMommySince07 at 1:11 AM on Jun. 2, 2009

  • he should respect your wishes or he shouldn't be your fiance..
    and its to bad if he doesn't want one because one is coming so he needs to step up.. if he doesn't want any more then he can go get clipped
    Jan0609momma

    Answer by Jan0609momma at 1:11 AM on Jun. 2, 2009

  • If it is his he really don't have a choice its too late now you are already pg and he can either deal with or pay child support. Does he have a good reason why he don't want another one? Like finacailly or whats the resoning behind it? So just know no matter what you know that he will love you n the baby if he don't then youi really dont need to marry him
    ggiovanni

    Answer by ggiovanni at 1:13 AM on Jun. 2, 2009

  • i would leave him
    ilovemyboys21

    Answer by ilovemyboys21 at 1:17 AM on Jun. 2, 2009

  • I have to agree with hismommysince07
    kaysha

    Answer by kaysha at 1:30 AM on Jun. 2, 2009

  • My boyfriend didn't want another child and wanted me to get an abortion. Not on my life would I consider that. I stood my ground and let him know how I felt. After it sank in, he felt the baby move, and saw ultra sounds of our little one he has really changed how he feels.
    My guy is really a keeper, I hope you are as lucky as me on this one.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:34 AM on Jun. 2, 2009

  • Do NOT give in to him. Stand your ground on this one. This is HIS child too how can he want to be the reason the baby dies? Hopefully he will grow up and realize he helped make this baby now he needs to stop whining. If he didnt want more kids, he should have either gotten a vasectomy or practiced abstinance.
    Mom2SKMB

    Answer by Mom2SKMB at 1:49 AM on Jun. 2, 2009

  • I'd return the ring...if there is a ring.
    gdiamante

    Answer by gdiamante at 2:06 AM on Jun. 2, 2009

  • Get out now!!! Thankfully you're not married yet. Get out of the relationship now and raise your children without him.
    BethTTC

    Answer by BethTTC at 2:37 AM on Jun. 2, 2009

  • My bf flipped out when I told him and this was last week. Today he's a little better about it but still against us having a baby right now. I explained to him that this isnt paper thats messed up so you cant just crumble it up and throw it in the garbage. I've been with him 5 years. He's all I know but NOTHING, not even my financial situation is going to make me have an abortion. It'll sink in eventually. Men are slow, they need time.
    Scaredsingle

    Answer by Scaredsingle at 3:27 AM on Jun. 2, 2009

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