I mean of course, other than the nausea and weight gain.... I'm just trying to figure out why we are arguing so much. It sucks. The discussions are petty but the words are harsh and I can't take it. I am hurting because I love him but I think that I am loosing him...I know that he cares about me but there are some things he needs to move past. .I have children from a guy that he hates and he feels like we shouldn't talk but he is the father of my children. I don't know Im so confused what is some advice I need it bad.Answer Question
Answer by Steff107 at 1:57 AM on Jun. 2, 2009
Answer by Precious333 at 1:57 AM on Jun. 2, 2009
This has nothing to do with the pregnancy. It has to do with the fact that your SO is being unreasonable over something that should be. I believe you are absolutely in the right to be civil and communicate with your ex concerning the children. There is nothing wrong with that. A lot of men seem to have a problem with this and the big reason is their own insecurity and jealousy. It's usually because they think that if you're civil with them, you might have feelings for them, or you would cheat with them. He hasn't got the concept that he is your EX for a reason. Your SO has to understand and respect that, or it will always cause problems. If that is the problem you are having, then find a solution by giving your SO an ultimatum. I think he is in the wrong if all of this is caused by you comunicating with your ex. As long as it's to be civil and for the kids, there is NOTHING wrong with it.
Answer by Anonymous at 2:00 AM on Jun. 2, 2009
Answer by rkoloms at 4:45 AM on Jun. 2, 2009