my boyfriend wants me to leave my daughter with his brohters wife. i dont know her. i dont know most of my bfs family (not very well like i couldnt call any of them up and just start talking) because of a alot of drama and reasons. 1 is they dont speak much english others is they jsut dont like me. i told him i dont know this women he says WELL I DO. would you leave your child with her, she is part of his family but i jsut dont know her and feel werid im been staying home with my daughter for 9 months now and am going back to work. its so sad i dont know where is best for her. she is VERY SHY towards adults she crys hysterically if someone holds her or gets in her face &talks to her. so i think daycare is not the place for her but on the other hand she LOVES little kids she gets so excited around them. also noone can put her to sleep except me so im really confused on what to do, any advice?Answer Question
Answer by Anonymous at 12:21 PM on Jun. 2, 2009
Answer by NicholeAT at 12:31 PM on Jun. 2, 2009
No, I would not leave my son with anybody I didn't feel comfortable with, for one simple reason, he is my world and I wouldn't want any unforeseen thing to happen to him when somebody was watching him that I didn't know, I would feel horribly guilty about that. My husband has suggested numerous times that we leave our son with certain people that he personally knows really well, but I don't. And I have told him that I was not comfortable with that, and he completely understood.
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