Soon to be hubby wants to try anal I'm not completely against it but I don't want it to hurt. He has done it with a previous GF but I haven't. When he fingers my ass it doesn't hurt but I feel like I have to crap what do I have to do so it won't hurt? Any advice thiis is new for me? Thanks!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:52 PM on Jun. 2, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 2:54 PM on Jun. 2, 2009
Answer by diamondmamma at 2:55 PM on Jun. 2, 2009
His finger is small compared to his penis..The feeling like you have to crap does not go away..IMO,,it hurts. I have tried it ,and do not like it. Guys do not understand you can not treat a women's a** like her vagina.
Answer by louise2 at 2:58 PM on Jun. 2, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 3:05 PM on Jun. 2, 2009
Answer by LindaClement at 3:10 PM on Jun. 2, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 3:14 PM on Jun. 2, 2009
Make sure you have made a bowel movement before you fool round. Look up sex101. many woman recommend that site for sex advice & technique. I personally LOVE anal. It makes me cum really fast though. Once it's in there & i have the vibrator on my special button, I'll cum in like 5 seconds. I have to pace myself. Good luck! Just make sure he goes slow! The anal canal stretches very big, but it just stretches MUCH slower. So, if you are both patient, it can be pleasurable for both of you. Trust me.
Answer by Anonymous at 3:32 PM on Jun. 2, 2009
Answer by moki1984 at 3:51 PM on Jun. 2, 2009
Answer by moki1984 at 3:53 PM on Jun. 2, 2009
"yea a man is gay because he wants your ass, i mean its only as tight as a virgin...but god knows men hate tight holes"
That's exactly what it makes me think of. It makes me think that the girl isn't tight enough if the guy wants anal so badly. There are other reasons why he'd want it but they aren't really positive ones. Do what your comfortable with. I've never had a vaginal birth so I don't have to worry about it.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 4:28 PM on Jun. 2, 2009