Alright, this will be a bit controversial so please, go into this with an open mind and refrain from rude comments, I just want some feedback.
Okay, I'm 18 years old, I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we have a little girl on the way. He is from El Salvador and no, he does not have papers. He is illegal.
He has a great job and has been working his way up the ladder and his boss has offered to pay for him to get married and file papers to get married.
My boyfriend knows that marriage is not an option for the two of us for a few reasons. One, I am still in high school. Two, I'm not ready. and Three, my family would disown me.
He has brought up the idea of paying a women to marry him in order to get papers. He won't live with her, won't see her. Doesn't even know her. But I feel kind of messed up about it.
I don't want to hold him back but It's kinda of hurtful. What should i do?
Asked by Anonymous at 8:14 PM on Jun. 2, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 8:15 PM on Jun. 2, 2009
Not good enough to marry but good enough to be the father of your baby
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