monday night me and my so got into an arguement because i was upset that i was in pain all day and had to do a million things and he wasnt helping me....the pain got really bad and i went to L&D and he went home and just said "ill call u later" so i sat in L&D and had to listen to them tell me that im having preterm contractions at 24 weeks and luckily my cervix is still closed or else i'd have to have my baby now...i have to lay in bed all day and take medicine because they say i have an infection thats causing me to have contractions...well my SO didnt call or anything to see if me and his baby were ok yesterday..i got a message today from him...
i feel really hurt that he wasnt there and hasnt been there since i came home from the hospital...i feel like he doesnt care about me or this baby but he acts all excited about having the baby....
how would you react if you were me?
Asked by Anonymous at 3:10 PM on Jun. 3, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by staciandababy at 3:15 PM on Jun. 3, 2009
well it sure seems as he doesnt care with the way he is acting. How old is he if you don't mind my asking? Some guys tend to get nervous/sacred about having a baby especially if its his first and they show it awful ways. Just try and sit down with him and explain how you feel and what he is doing is hurting you. Try and reassure him and let him know that it will all be ok. Hes nervous about being a daddy but if its the first baby for you two, hes scared hes losing the life you two have together. Tell him yes, things are going to change, a lot, but in a good way. Good luck hun. I hope he mans up for you.
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