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We rarely make out....

My husband and I rarely make out, we kiss on lips when he comes home but they say kiss should last at least for 10 second but ours is 1 second. Last night we had sex but without kissing. What you think about my sex life?

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Asked by Anonymous at 9:45 AM on Jun. 4, 2009 in Relationships

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  • I have sex without kissing all the time. Kissing to me is gross! all them germs in his mouth, my mouth. Na I pass on that thanks. as for your sex life... its really important to kiss for you? If so why?

    Answer by soonmommyof3 at 9:47 AM on Jun. 4, 2009

  • sounds like mine. that's just how Ron is,he does not show alot of affection,but he will kiss me back if i start the kiss. i don't get a kiss hello,just when he leaves the house(if i'm awake). it sucks but what can i do?,not every man is perfect,lol!

    Answer by pam228 at 9:57 AM on Jun. 4, 2009

  • we don't really kiss that much either

    Answer by josiesmommy00 at 9:58 AM on Jun. 4, 2009

  • We don't really kiss much but it is cause I have to be in the mood...We kiss bye but only kiss during sex maybe once a month or so...

    Answer by heather.darin at 10:06 AM on Jun. 4, 2009

  • Making out is for people who are dating,,people who are just getting to know each other..JMO We do not kiss like that any more either.Just a peck now and then


    Answer by louise2 at 10:10 AM on Jun. 4, 2009

  • Some people dont kiss much. Making out is one of those thing that you tend to do when you CANT have sex and really want

    Answer by abbynzachsmommy at 10:10 AM on Jun. 4, 2009

  • We don't make out and our sex life is fantastic. My husband and I never really made out we both realize the mouth is one of the most germ filled parts of our bodies and find it kind of gross. I would rather put my mouth on my husbands penis he likes that better

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:25 AM on Jun. 4, 2009

  • i never kiss my hubby he smokes nasty

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:36 AM on Jun. 4, 2009

  • We love to kiss! We don't sit around and make out all the time, but we do love to kiss each other--we're affectionate people. And we kiss a lot during sex, helps keep the connection between us. And of course it's always fun to have a hot make-out session while I'm cooking dinner or while we're getting ready to get into the shower...we just love to keep our spark alive! And in my opinion, the key to a long happy marriage, is to never stop dating your spouse!

    I don't think there is anything wrong with people not kissing--if it works for you and yours, then it works. Nothing wrong with that.

    Answer by carliemarie1015 at 11:25 AM on Jun. 4, 2009

  • When he gets home from work, (pop some delicious flavor in your mouth first) grab him up and remind him and yourself what a passionate kiss is. ;)

    Answer by kimberlyinberea at 11:55 AM on Jun. 4, 2009

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