My DH does not trust me, at all. No matter what I do he is suspicious. I have never gave him a reason to not trust me. We started dating when I was 17 and he was 23, he didn't trust me then either. I was hoping he would get over his trust issues. After 9 years of marriage and 3 kids later, he still doesn't trust me.
I got a letter from a GIRL friend. He automatically lit into me and I told him it was a GIRL friend, not a guy. he didn't believe me. I told him to feel free and read the letter, he wouldn't. I am just done with his trust issues and I feel no matter what I do he will never trust me. When my rapist was harassing me, DH blamed that one on me too. he still harasses me when I have to go to town to the store. Somehow that is my fault. The dude is crazy. I don't know what else to do. I have tried and tried and nothing is ever good enough. Would you walk away? I have done suggested marriage counseling and he says no.
Asked by Anonymous at 3:06 PM on Jun. 4, 2009 in Relationships
Why did you get into this marriage in the first place. I'm not one for advocating divorce, but you have to consider what his behavior is teaching your children. You can't keep a relationship alive that was in critical condition before it began and is dead now. You can't save a relationship alone. I'm sorry to say all this and I don't mean to be hurtful, but it's time to move on.
You may want to consider some counceling for yourself as well, this may have hurt you in deeper ways than you can imagine.
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He's got his own issues. He is just typical unfortunately he is more than like cheating or doing something he feels guilty for and throws it on you. You should go to counseling for yourself then see how to work things out for you and your children.
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