i don't understand what you are asking. trust is not an immediate thing. it takes time and love and truth. since i don't know the whole situation i am going to say that if you feel that he is still not trying to earn your trust (because you said something about keeping his word) that maybe it isn't worth all of your energy to try and do something that he could not care less about, which is your relationship.
good luck hun.
at 11:03 AM on Jun. 9, 2009