How hard is it to be in a relationship with someone in the army? Getting moved around all the time and deployed?
My best friend is in the army and deployed right now, but when he comes home he wants us to try our chances at a relationship. To be honest, I'd be all for it, except I'm worried about the strain on the relationship when he'd be deployed etc. But on the other hand, I've been a single mom for almost 2 years now, it's not like i can't handle being on my own.
I see lot's of army wives on here, so I'm hoping some of you can tell me the honest truth about the good and bad of an army relationship.
Answer by Cavalrybaby02 at 2:42 PM on Jun. 6, 2009
Answer by toriandgrace at 12:51 PM on Jun. 6, 2009
When I met my hubby I was 17. Then shortly after he went to Korea (1998-1999). We dated the whole time. It wasn't hard for me, because I fell in love with him and wanted to spend the rest of my life with him, and didn't know what was going to happen between us. Yes, it is a strain on the relationship, but I wanted to try everything to make sure it would work out for us. We've been married for 10 years now; with two beautiful daughters. I really hope everything works out for the both of you!! Good luck with everything!!!
Now, the good and the bad: It's hard being away from them, and you do spend a lot of time away from them. The good (for me): the pride I feel in my hubby for everything he does for our country and everything he has accomplished in his career.
Answer by Aviators_Wife at 12:53 PM on Jun. 6, 2009
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Answer by Cavalrybaby02 at 2:47 PM on Jun. 6, 2009
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