Oh yes you certainly can. And like gdiamante said, you can ruin ANYONE'S life if you do certain things. My friend drank and did drugs while she was pregnant. Her little girl is 18 months old and is bascially brain dead. She messed her child's life. There are women out there who stay with men who abuse them and their children. That is messing up a child's life. By not showing your children enough love, attention, giving them encouragement, etc, you are messing up their lives.
at 11:18 PM on Jun. 6, 2009