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Do virgins always bleed the first tiem they have sex?

My husband was my first, although we didnt wait until after we got married. Now the other day when i was talking to him we got on the subject and he said he wasnt sure if i actually was because i didnt bleed or anything the first time we had sex, do you have to bleed the first time you have sex, or does it depend on how slow you take things?

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Asked by AtticusJsmum at 11:23 PM on Jun. 6, 2009 in Relationships

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  • no you don't always bleed. you could have broken the hymen earlier in life and not realized it. (a fall as a child etc...) i didn't the first time i had sex.

    Answer by vabchmommy at 11:24 PM on Jun. 6, 2009

  • I didnt bleed when i lost my virginity.

    Answer by MommyLee08 at 11:28 PM on Jun. 6, 2009

  • I didn't bleed the first time either. It was more like the 3rd or 4th time. It depends on whenever you actually break the hymen.

    Answer by HisMommySince07 at 11:29 PM on Jun. 6, 2009

  • I didn't.

    Answer by Rachel24517 at 11:30 PM on Jun. 6, 2009

  • Thanks for the replies, my husband basicallyaccused me of lying and i was just curious if you always did, I think i know if i had sex or not, i asked him what would be the point about lying about your virginity, he said some women just do.

    Answer by AtticusJsmum at 11:31 PM on Jun. 6, 2009

  • i didn't the first time.. the second time i did.... really weird!

    Answer by 07lilmama1108 at 11:41 PM on Jun. 6, 2009

  • no i didn't

    Answer by marievegan at 11:46 PM on Jun. 6, 2009

  • Me either and my hubby thought I was lying about him being my first!

    Answer by ellies3boys at 11:48 PM on Jun. 6, 2009

  • i didnt

    Answer by alleykatt28 at 12:02 AM on Jun. 7, 2009

  • I didn't.

    Answer by Samantha19 at 12:12 AM on Jun. 7, 2009

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