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how could ne one tell a victim of molestation they they liked it and are a slut for it?

How could someone do that? On top of that make fun of someones TTC problem, when they did nothing wrong.

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 6:02 AM on Jun. 7, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Stay away from this person who said it .why on earth would they say that if you were the victim.try to talk to someone you trust like an aunt or something.
    monica-alvarez

    Answer by monica-alvarez at 10:59 AM on Jun. 7, 2009

  • what was said about the TTC: Is that why you're so bitter, because you're not woman enough to make another baby. You're broken.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:05 AM on Jun. 7, 2009

  • Whoever this person is that said this, this is a TOXIC relationship. Get the hell out of it! Whoever said this is a very cruel person, and doesn't even deserve to live.

    If this is a husband/boyfriend/SO whatever, throw him out with tomorrow's trash and move on with your life. You will be miserable for the rest of your life if you stay with him.

    I don't know who said this, but it totally sounds like a guy thing, but I could be wrong. This person totally sounds like a guy who is bitter and angry, and sicne micery loves company, so they say, he wants you to be as miserable as possible, and is just looking for the most hurtful things to say to you. I can't imagine anything worse.

    TODAY>..tell him that you are done, and mean it! Just walk up to him and say, "I'm done with you." and never talk to that person again. You don't need that in your life. If you have to move out, then do it, esp. if you have other children.
    Kauna

    Answer by Kauna at 6:31 AM on Jun. 7, 2009

  • That sounds like a person who is controlling the victim. That statement reeks of control and manipulation. If youre the victim, then dont believe this. Just make up your mind that youre going to believe the truth which is that YOU were victimized and the perpetrator was wrong and should be in jail and needs help. Stay away from this person that said this.....they are sick.
    momofsaee

    Answer by momofsaee at 8:09 AM on Jun. 7, 2009

  • kick whoever said that to you in the face and walk away from him/her for good. thats rude, and very disrespectful! id be hitting someone!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:42 AM on Jun. 7, 2009

  • The person who said it was here on cafemom.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:46 AM on Jun. 8, 2009