I just recently found out that my husband has been running around with someone else for the last couple weeks. He swears that all they did is kiss, and that its done, and he wants to work on our marriage. The problem is I don't trust him. I constently wonder what hes doing, and I can't even trust him at work because that is where this happened...
Supposedly she no longer works there, but she only lives a couple blocks away. I don't know what I could do in order to start working on my trust with him because no matter what I don't believe him. Even that all it was was a kiss, I don't believe him. I can't. I'm trying not to stress, cuz I am 8 months pregnant. But everytime I sit I think about it, was may of happened what I know did, why, just a million things, and I can't help but cry. Please I need some advice. I love my husband to death...But I don't even know where to start repairing us
Asked by Anonymous at 11:49 AM on Jun. 7, 2009 in Relationships
I am so sorry that happened, and I cannot even imagine what that added stress must being doing to you, especially since you are pregnant. First thing is first, you need to remove all exterior factors (stupid tramp). Then you both can start working on your relationship. I would definately get in contact with a marriage counsler. It can be an open forum for you to get the answers that you need, and to have a third party be there so you can work through everything. He might never regain your trust. The ball is definately in his court, and the fact that both of you want to work on this is a good sign. Hopefully with time and counseling, you both can mend the damage he has done. Right now though he is going to have to make some drastic effort to show you that he really is done with her, and that nothing else is going on. p>
Answer by Kat122 at 11:55 AM on Jun. 7, 2009
Answer by MamaApril2 at 12:00 PM on Jun. 7, 2009
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