I really don't want to talk to him right now and I know that if I say something, he will fight with me and say hurtful things... I don't really have the strength to deal with that right now.
I want him to change but he never will. It has been two years and he still is gone more than he is here with us. I have told him several times what I want out of this, he will come over for a week and then he will shut me out again for another two weeks.
I don't know if me moving on with my life will open his eyes or not but maybe if I stop begging, he will realize that it's over or maybe even realize that he better step up if this is worth saving to him. I know that moving on will help me to not cry as much and be depressed because he is selfish and won't show me or my son the love we deserve.
Asked by Anonymous at 6:30 PM on Jun. 7, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 6:33 PM on Jun. 7, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 6:36 PM on Jun. 7, 2009
Oh god sweety i feel like i was the one that wrote that and i wish i could answer your question wt out Looking dumb for not taking my own advise but i do feel that it's better to move on and hopefully he will realize and not wait till u are completely over him. I am currently on the same boat i just had an argument wt hubby like 10 mins ago. Send me a message if you want to talk.
Answer by florezitta10 at 6:36 PM on Jun. 7, 2009
Btw. i gave my hubby plenty of warnings and it loks like he now thinks i will never leave cuz i have warned him so much. Just make sure you think through wat your gonna say and stick to your word.
Answer by florezitta10 at 6:37 PM on Jun. 7, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 6:44 PM on Jun. 7, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 6:45 PM on Jun. 7, 2009
Give him fair warning? This man is destroying you on the inside and you are worried about how he might feel? The most important thing you need to do is worry about yourself and your kid(s). You need to worry about rebuilding what self esteem you do have left. If you allow this man to continue walking all over you like this he is going to do it until there is no point of return. Save yourself and then when you have your confidence back. When you can honestly say that you are in a happier place, then worry about him. IF he is committed to you and your family he will come to you. But don't wait for him. That's what has been dragging you down so far. Good luck with whatever you choose to do. But make sure it is what makes you happy.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 7:12 PM on Jun. 7, 2009
Answer by Dylanmom731 at 7:15 PM on Jun. 7, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 7:28 PM on Jun. 7, 2009
Answer by LovePassionate at 7:53 PM on Jun. 7, 2009
Next question overall
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