After 16 1/2 years of marriage, my husband was caught cheating and the next day moved in with his "lover". I have a 14 year old son and we never suspected this. He left with no cause except "wanting to be happy". I do not have a clue on what he is unhappy about. He has everything a man could want. A big nice boat, a ome of our own, money in the bank, great jobs, awesome behaved child, and a wife who loved him immensly. He left everything. There was no need for anything in the home or in the relationship that he wanted, it was if he just wanted to go with the new"life" he had made and leave this one behind. How can that be? I am so distraught and sad. I thought my life would end with him at my side, as my husband. I thought he would always be there for me. I am forever changed by this. I need to know what my next steps are going to be like. I have filed and the divorce is unconested. He does not care no matter what the cost .Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:16 PM on Jun. 7, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Eveshalloween at 9:32 PM on Jun. 7, 2009
Answer by Avarah at 10:17 PM on Jun. 7, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:10 PM on Jun. 7, 2009
Answer by Mich80 at 11:34 PM on Jun. 7, 2009
11:10 PM you are an insensitive B!TCH. She said ".......and a wife who loved him immensely."
That sounds like she had something to offer him to me! And NO, MEN don't cheat because you aren't giving them what they need. Most men cheat because THEY want something new and different, want the forbidden fruit, take their wives for granted, want an ego stroke........ah the list could go ON AND ON and on. It's usually NOT the wife AT ALL. IT'S the men and their corrupt thinking and pure selfishness. VERY rarely is it actually BECAUSE of the wife. Karma is coming for your ass too anon. People as cruel as you will get what they dish out on others.
Answer by Anonymous at 2:57 AM on Jun. 8, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:46 AM on Jun. 8, 2009