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HOW EARLY IS TO EARLY IN A RELATIONSHIP TO HAVE OR BOTH AGREE TO START TRYING FOR A BABY?

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sarahandmark09

Asked by sarahandmark09 at 11:45 PM on Jun. 7, 2009 in Just for Fun

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  • 2 years..... is to early you need to get to know a person, & see if he will be a good father htis takes time no need to rush in a create a life because the kids will suffer in the end
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:47 PM on Jun. 7, 2009

  • Get married first
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:52 PM on Jun. 7, 2009

  • I would wait until you are both married. It makes things a lot easier.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:57 PM on Jun. 7, 2009

  • Get married first. Be married for two or three years. THEN talk about hving a baby and what parenthood means to both of you. HAving children is a huge decision. You need to be happy together before you add kids to the relationship. Really.
    Lindalu2

    Answer by Lindalu2 at 12:05 AM on Jun. 8, 2009

  • Married! If he isn't committed enough to marry you, how do you know he'll stick around and be a real dad to the kids?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:29 AM on Jun. 8, 2009

  • When you get married and can give that child a stable and loving life! IMO
    MaiasMommy619

    Answer by MaiasMommy619 at 12:34 AM on Jun. 8, 2009

  • Hubby asked if I would have his kids 2 months into the relationship. 3 years later we had a beautiful baby boy. And yes we are married.
    Sarina.c.c

    Answer by Sarina.c.c at 12:35 AM on Jun. 8, 2009

  • me and my partner have 4 kids between us i have one daughter and he has 3. were not really thinking about having a baby just yet cuz weve only been together for about aa yr but i was curious to see other peoples point of view. thanks for answering. its interesting to see how diff relationships can vary and peoples diff opinions. :)
    sarahandmark09

    Answer by sarahandmark09 at 5:43 AM on Jun. 8, 2009

  • YOU DONT HAVE TO BE MARRIED TO HAVE KIDS = COMMITMENT COMES IN MANY FORMS - IT IS ULTIMATELY YOUR DECISION WHETHER YOU TWO KNOW ONE ANOTHER WELL ENOUGH AND COULD BOTH BE GOOD PARENTS TOGETHER NOT SOMEONE ELSE TO DECIDE - GOOD LUCK
    LoveOurChild09

    Answer by LoveOurChild09 at 3:12 PM on Jun. 8, 2009

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