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Do you completely trust your hubby/s.o.?

I'm pretty secure, but do you ever wonder if your other gets turned on by other people, then acts like it's you that turns them on? My man always seems horny, & we have sex almost every day! Do you trust them when they go places with other guys? Do you wonder what women they googled at? I trust my man, but not completely!

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:47 AM on Jun. 9, 2009 in Relationships

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  • I trust him, and he trusts me. After 17 yrs of marriage, and 19 yrs of military life, I would have gone nuts long ago if I didn't.
    sailorwifenmom

    Answer by sailorwifenmom at 1:49 AM on Jun. 9, 2009

  • Do you completely trust your hubby/s.o.? NO.

    do you ever wonder if your other gets turned on by other people, then acts like it's you that turns them on? IT'S CROSSED MY MIND BUT I KNOW I TURN HIM ON.

    Do you trust them when they go places with other guys? IT DEPENDS ON THE GUYS!

    Do you wonder what women they googled at? YES BUT I TRY NOT TO THINK ABOUT IT!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:50 AM on Jun. 9, 2009

  • I don't really care what gets him turned on as long as I am getting mine. I trust him not to cheat on me. If he looks at other girls when he is out, I don't really care, as long as he isn't screaming out anybody elses name. I on occasion think about others while we are going at it, I assume he does on occasion also.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:51 AM on Jun. 9, 2009

  • I completely trust my hubby! I know he googles at other girls... but they are attractive and have similar qualities I have. I know I turn him on as well and I also KNOW when he goes out with his friends he comes back and leaves other girls alone. They all end up back here talking about the other girls and then I feel like a trophy wife because my hubby starts bragging about me.... he tells me EVERY detail... like when they go to a strip club and sometimes I get jealous, but I do know I have nothing to worry about!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:59 AM on Jun. 9, 2009

  • i trust my boyfriend completely. i know he looks at other women it just what men do. i mean us as women look at a handsome guy it they walk by. my man don't go out with his guy friends. i really don't care what girls he looks at. hell my boyfriend will tell me look at that girl she is hot, and i just agree and say ya i would do her. that makes him mad when i say that, so now he just keeps it to him self. lol but the answer is ya i trust him, and he trust me. at least he says he trust me. lol
    okc-mom-2

    Answer by okc-mom-2 at 2:12 AM on Jun. 9, 2009

  • I completely trust my boyfriend...we have a great relationship and we trust each other..i dont mind for him to look at other girls..i know he wont leave me for someone else..and when girls check him out that makes me feel good about my self...knowing i have him and they never will...and i dont care what friends he goes out with..i dont like some of them cuz they might try to get him to hit on someone but i trust him not to
    JessFreeman

    Answer by JessFreeman at 2:21 AM on Jun. 9, 2009

  • I complerely trust my husband, he rarely goes out with the guys though. I do know though that he has thought another woman was cute, but thats as far as it goes.
    Precious333

    Answer by Precious333 at 2:33 AM on Jun. 9, 2009

  • i trust in him but i do not trust him completely. women who think their men will never cheat on them are living in a dream world. EVERYONE is capable of cheating so take care of your man and don't ever trust 100%. i am not saying that ll men cheat, but all men are capable of it, even the best of them...given the right circumstances.
    nairda

    Answer by nairda at 3:36 AM on Jun. 9, 2009

  • and yes men are turned on by other women all the time! no matter how hot you are! men are men, it's in there "jeans" literally...
    nairda

    Answer by nairda at 3:38 AM on Jun. 9, 2009

  • I trust my husband 100%. No one out there can convince me not to. He is 100% honest with me about where he goes when he's out with the guys and exactly what they do, but they all come to me begging me not to tell their wives cos they aren't honest with them and they know he tells me everything. He hardly ever goes out, maybe a couple times a year. I know he finds other women attractive. We talk about what women we mutually find attractive and why (I'm not bi, but I do think some women are attractive). I mean we find men attractive right? Doesn't mean we are going to go out and cheat with them. All women are capable of cheating too right? Doesn't mean I'm going to. I have been married 13 years and he's been active military for 12, and we have had rough spots but kept the honesty in the relationship and it built us up. He's never cheated, and when we had trouble, we went to counseling to handle it. He's got NO complaints now ;-)
    AprilDJC

    Answer by AprilDJC at 5:07 AM on Jun. 9, 2009

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