I went to precana (its pre marital counseling for catholics) as a non catholic and then I ran ran ran and never looked back. A little of it was the religious beliefs, I'll admit (I was point blank told that my love was not blessed by God because I wasn't baptized even though I had more respect for his religion than he did!) but it was also the fact that he had no backbone, no practical goals etc etc. Things I knew deep down but when staring me in the face, I left. It did take me a little longer than after the sessions- but I think that was the beginning of the end. I would totally reccomend them for everyone. Even if you don't think it mattered, it certainly didn't hurt.
at 9:41 PM on Jun. 9, 2009