Please dont judge me before u read this, as I am really needing some advice and really hurting. I have been married for 15 years. We have two kids. 3 years ago, I had an affair with my HS sweetheart, which I came clean to DH about. We made every attempt to get our mariage back on track. But the thing is, I still craved more attention that what he gives me. So, just a few weeks a go, I started an affair with someone I met online.
It kills me to think about leaving my husband, as we have been together so very long. He is a good man. Great father, hard worker, good to me. But there is no passion in our relationship, and we have had some issues in the bedroom as well, way before the affairs.
I know I obviously have issues with not being able to stay faithful, but the thought of being without my husband, or hurting him, hurts me. I am just in a bad spot and hope someone can provide advice. Thank you!
Asked by Anonymous at 10:41 PM on Jun. 9, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Mama_Kimmy at 10:45 PM on Jun. 9, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 10:51 PM on Jun. 9, 2009
Answer by ajguinn at 10:51 PM on Jun. 9, 2009
I think that maybe you should think what will hurt him more (as you have said that you do not want to see him hurt) finding out you cheated or you being honest about your feelings about him, the passion, and your relationship and leaving. And also you may need to grow more (alone) I don' t know how old you are but if your response to difficult times in a marriage is to cheat then maybe being in a marriage is not for you (and remember the 80/20 rule )
Answer by nateandlo at 11:03 PM on Jun. 9, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 12:16 AM on Jun. 10, 2009
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