I can only get aroused (and even then just a little) by my imagination. NOTHING my husband or former lovers have done has had any effect on me. I have so little sexual desire that I have come to see sex a huge burden.
My husband would do anything for me but I have never felt any sexual response to anything he's tried or I've suggested. We went to counselling once and it didn't help at all. In fact, I found the whole thing embarrassing!
We've been together 16 years now. Is there really no hope I'll ever enjoy sex!?? It's making me miserable.
Thankyou for your time and any words of advice or support.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:45 AM on Jun. 10, 2009 in Relationships
Have you considered that there could be a medical problem. I have read that some women suffer from this issue when their estrogen level is too low. If that's not the issue then perhaps some counseling?
Answer by teamquinn at 10:57 AM on Jun. 10, 2009
I think the more you use it, the better response you'll have. I had to teach myself how to orgasm. No man could ever do it. So, i went & bought me a little vibrator. I REALLY wanted to enjoy sex, i thought this might help me figure out how. Anyway, after some trial & error, i finally had my first orgasm.....all by myself. That was all i needed to keep trying. This was about 5-6 years ago, i now am horny all the time, i developed a craving for it. I also started working out at the gym 5 days a week, & this also upped my sex drive. Anyway, this is what worked for me. I thought i would share. It seams like now i can't get enough sex, it's funny when i remember how much i hated it.
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