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Feeling grossed out by sex?

Last week me and hubby had sex for the first time after finding out I was pregnant and I started spotting that night so I decided we should take a break. Two days ago we were at it and I felt so grossed out.
For some reason I kept picturing the inside of my vagina being scraped at. Yes, I was very moist so it didnt FEEL this way, but for some reason the word "sensitive" was being over dramatized in my head. I felt like a virgin all over again. I felt bad because I kept telling him throughout the entire "session"(what a word lol) to slow down, be gentle and slower. Meanwhile he was being all of the above.
Am I freaking out? Have any of you been through this?

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Asked by youngfirsttimer at 10:15 PM on Jun. 10, 2009 in Pregnancy

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  • ****^6 Weeks Preggers^***

    Answer by youngfirsttimer at 10:15 PM on Jun. 10, 2009

  • I HATED sex while I was pregnant. If we did have it it had to be quick because it annoyed me for some reason.....I'm sure it's hormones!

    Answer by Steff107 at 10:19 PM on Jun. 10, 2009

  • im 18weeks and we woud have sex everyday and then id be disgusted again and we wudnt have sex for a month then id do it again then not again for some i kinda felt like that off and on but i havent felt like that for a couple weeks now...hopefully im over it

    Answer by Dom123123 at 10:30 PM on Jun. 10, 2009

  • I didn't enjoy it with my second pregnancy. I couldn't wait for it to be over with and it was uncomfortable and kind of painful. Towards the end of my pregnancy I enjoyed it very much. Little bit of advice, use lots of lube and have him give you a little pleasure with his mouth beforehand it really helps.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:34 PM on Jun. 10, 2009

  • wayyyyy normal. i was not about to have sex with my daughter inside me. i was just nooot interested. and i love sex. but he was not having it with me during pregnancy oh noo. if he wants it and you dont. hes just gonn have to deaal lol

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:29 PM on Jun. 10, 2009

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