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I think I want to give anal another try, got any tips for success?

I've dabbled some, and It drives DH nuts, but the pain always ruins any pleasure. I get a thrill at the idea of it and would love to surprise my DH during straight sex. I know...relax..anything else I should know? I should probably be anon for this:)

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 12:22 AM on Jun. 11, 2009 in Relationships

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  • relax.. and use lube and have him put the head in then tell him to wait till ur body adjusts and u think calm thoughts.. or really kinky dirty thoughts hehe and when the head is ok the have him go further and then say wait till ur adjusted to that and then continue till its all the way in.. oh and little finger love action first helps 2 relax muscles :)
    preggoinmn

    Answer by preggoinmn at 12:26 AM on Jun. 11, 2009

  • make sure you use plenty of lube, and ease into it.. try a toy first tne try his thing...

    also they make lybe that is nubming " anal ease"
    2cuteboysrmine

    Answer by 2cuteboysrmine at 12:27 AM on Jun. 11, 2009

  • shoot anal ease.. now thats a new one lol where do i get it lol
    preggoinmn

    Answer by preggoinmn at 12:29 AM on Jun. 11, 2009

  • lots of lube. make him go slow. and if it hurts don't do it just to please him..just work your way into it.
    dbodani

    Answer by dbodani at 12:31 AM on Jun. 11, 2009

  • I get mine in slumberparties.com
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:34 AM on Jun. 11, 2009

  • Get really drunk. Also, remember your ass is not made for sex so keep in mind what the long term effects could be.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:39 AM on Jun. 11, 2009

  • lube it up....drink some alcohol...I did it in the shower and that worked for me
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:41 AM on Jun. 11, 2009

  • OP...I'm guessing I can't buy anal ease at the drug store.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:42 AM on Jun. 11, 2009

  • I'd check spencers I think or a sex shop
    preggoinmn

    Answer by preggoinmn at 12:49 AM on Jun. 11, 2009

  • I saw analease at walmart the other day. It's with the KY and condoms and stuff.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:52 AM on Jun. 11, 2009

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