I don't even know where to start ? My three year old gets under my skin so bad, and she never listens to me some times latley not even her father. She hits me she screams she crys and will NOT stay in time out. I am sick they don't know what is wrong with me intil another month and i don't have the energy to fight with her. My husband says i handle every thing the wrong why but he is around like 1 to 2 hours a day. We are young parents 26 . I am thinking to put her on meds but everyone tells me no that they won't have any thing to do with it but no one i mean no one can handle her. I am on meds because of her. I even went so far to call super nanny but no one ever called me back!!! I think she is goin to end a marriage if i can't get a handle on it all i want to do is cry and some times i don't want to fight any more with any thing some one any one please help me please i don't know what else to do its getting so badAnswer Question
Answer by kustomkrochet at 8:12 AM on Jun. 11, 2009
i know it sounds cheesy, but get a parenting book. i was having similar problems with my 2 year old and posted a question like this one a long time ago. I was told to read "Making your Children Mind without Losing Yours" by Dr. Kevin Leman. At first, i just rolled my eyes to this response. Later, just being desperate, I bought it. What a difference it has made in my parenting style. No it's not some extreme book that says you must spank, or you can't, it just helps you learn to deal with your own emotions and your child's...at any age. My child was 2 at the time. She's almost 3 now, and her fits are under control, she listens (and i listen). It's not a perfect solution by any means, but because I'm better equipped to deal with her, things have gotten easier, good luck.
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