I ask about helping a 15 yr. old with her sexuality, most of you assumed, I didn't tell her that I will love her no matter what. I do love her and I want what's best for her, and she's been told so. What I wanted was a way to talk to her without pressuring her to conform to my beliefs. I realize that I can cause her to turn away from me, that's why I posed this question. I'm looking for help, hoping you could give me something I haven't thought to use or knew to use. Whatever she chooses to do, I want her to know the pro's and con's. Iwould never force the word of God on her, that has to be a choice.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:46 PM on Jun. 11, 2009 in Teens (13-17)
Answer by kittyhasclaws at 12:51 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
hon, its a phase most likely, I am person specific, which means I look for things I like about a PERSON and when I find that I'll date them. I don't care much for gender, I don't consider myself "bi-sexual" because I think that's an excuse to have sex with either male or females, though my options are the same as a bisexual I don't think of it from a sex point of view I think only of what I like and enjoy in a person.
her sexuality is just that, HER sexuality, and you should be supportive and just wait it though, this is common in high school, a lot of girls and guys are into the gay and bi sexual thing because in there mind it expresses sexual freedom, there is a BIG chance its a phase that she will get out of, and until then just be cool with it and except her.
sometimes lesbians and gays are the truest from of love, because there care not about anything other than the person.
Answer by judith_visco at 12:52 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
Answer by bebita at 12:58 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
Answer by Desi2Sweet at 1:00 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
Answer by Desi2Sweet at 1:03 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
you are a sexual person from birth!? little girls grabbing there labia, or little boys playing with there winkeys. were engineered and born to be "sexual". from the time little boys and girls grab there parts they no it feels good to play with, and by the time they no the diff between a man and a woman they have an idea of what they like! how could you be so stupid to think that people aren't born sexual creatures, its not something were taught, we no how to be sexual naturally! bebita, you need to think about what you say, because saying hurtful things to a teenager and not respecting there wishes and talking them through things is why they act out the way they do and do off the wall things for attention!
Answer by judith_visco at 1:04 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
Answer by salexander at 1:06 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
Answer by SouthernMOM1981 at 1:22 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
Answer by bebita at 2:56 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
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