Hello! I found out I was pregnant in January (8 weeks) and my husband and I were surprised but extremely happy. Recently, about 3 to 2 weeks my husband has had a strange attitude. For example, he seems to want to prove that he doesnt have to answer to me, acts distant, and is not as lovey dovy with me , I ask but I get the same answer every time: Im fine your imagining things!!!!!!!!!!! I want to spend more time with him but he seems to be pulling away but this is just recently. Even the way he talks to me has changed. I dont know what to do, Im 7 months pregnant now and it seems like the baby want s to come out I know that worries him, has anyone else dealt with soon to be daddy blues? Did I mention I never got sick, nauseas , or nothing to indicate pregnancy ------he got severely sick for months and he is the one with the cravings. HELP HELP HELP! IS MY MARRIAGE IN TROUBLE?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 6:15 PM on Jun. 11, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by admckenzie at 6:20 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
Answer by theboysmom311 at 6:20 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
Answer by ggiovanni at 7:12 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
Men aren't very forthcoming with their feelings but it sounds like his are kinda taken over. He realizes that someone very special is coming into his life and that he is responsible for everything for that person (eating, shelter, clothing, emotional well being). I know that you are probably scared in the same way but there are moments of bonding that don't include your man and are going on with you and your child right now (it's hard not to be included). If you baby is a boy he will learn how to be a man from your hubby and how to choose and treat a woman. If you baby is a girl she will learn how to respect herself and how a man should treat and respect her from her dad. that is a lot to sholder. Try talking to him, maybe he'll let you know what's going on.
Answer by nateandlo at 11:28 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
Answer by sailormoonjen85 at 10:29 AM on Jun. 12, 2009