had been born. if your doctor recommended bed rest or anything along those lines than do what you can there, however if not and there is nothing they have suggested to prevent it, than just remember its not your fault its nothing you did. and if its a repeat m/c next time you get preg, or before you get preg again, ask for some genetic testing, they take blood from you and your SO and determine if you are carriers for certain diseases, and then you guys can go from there. but its nothing you did or didn't do, as long as you took care of yourself than you did everything you could to make sure you would have a healthy baby, beyond that you just have to hope that everything will be ok.
at 7:06 PM on Jun. 11, 2009