Okay... I really do love him. I just don't like him. I do stuff for him and take care of him. However he is rude, disrepectful and is only nice if he wants something. He has been very mean to me since the marriage. When I was only dating his dad he was a sweet kid. Once I married him he changed. He even has made racist comments around me. Maybe that is what made me sour on him. (I am Black, Hubby is white.) He just makes my skin boil because I know he feels deep down that whites are better. Everyone is entitled to their opinion but why should I be subjected to it. I always am polite but deep down I feel like this child has burnt his bridges with me. He is 16 almost 17 and I feel he should know better. I know I will upset my DH. Maybe I should just live with it since he will move out soon.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 8:38 PM on Jun. 11, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by nakita72 at 8:40 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
Answer by Myni at 8:42 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
Answer by staciandababy at 8:42 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
In a way it is your fault bc as soon as he started to act different you should have done something about it and have told your dh.
But to answer your question don't say a word just hang in there bite your tongue for now he will soon be 18 and long gone. (Hopefully)
Your dh married you for a reason he loves you for you, so don't ever let him see or know how you really feel about his son...all that boy needs is a good old fashioned whipping...lol case solved. Just consintrate on you and your dh and continue to be the sweet person that you are it will all work out in the end. Keep your chin up.
Answer by Butterfly1108 at 8:46 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
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Answer by Tawanda74 at 9:11 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
I would say you don't like the kid's behavior, not him. You need to talk to your husband and let him know how much this hurts you and he needs to form a plan that punishes the child, and gives you your dignity regarding such a touchy subject. He is way out of line to use racial aspects against you and he is old enough to be held accountable for his actions. He may be jealous or hurt, but this is not ok. I think your husband will support you for sure! I would say don't give up, but there is a lot of work to do. I'm sorry you are so hurt. It must be so hard. I hope it gets better--talk to your husband first.
Answer by Teachermom01 at 9:36 PM on Jun. 11, 2009
Answer by melody77 at 9:38 PM on Jun. 11, 2009